You want to know why I wouldn't trust you?

I keep hanging around people who are antis until I have no more use for them. Then I will leave them.

plus . . .

I hate kids. They get all the love and attention, and I get almost nothing. I refuse to be a second banana!

There. You just admitted that a) you manipulate people until you no longer have any use for them and you don't even like kids and are extremely jealous of them. Which is why I don't believe you when you say:

I've stated that I want to help all of the suffering pedophiles when I become an activist. I've made it clear that I'm not selfish.

Do you really not see how the above statements come across as selfish?

Then it's about time to start changing this god damn world. I am not going to accept it, and I'm not going to sit on my ass and do nothing about it.

Nobody said you have to accept it, but you need to learn that the world is not black and white. What you'll get with the "with me or against me" philosophy in the end is, no one with you and everyone against you. Learn how to compromise. Love your mom for her positive qualities and reject the negative ones. Try to get at the root of why she feels the way she does. Maybe she was severely abused herself, or knows people who have been severely abused.

Imagine her as an uneducated Judith Reisman, and you will see what I am dealing with here.

Hmmm, you make her out to be pretty awful. Let me ask you some questions, if you don't mind answering them: How does she feel about gays? What is her political temperament (liberal, moderate, conservative)? What are her religious views? This will help me assess from which direction you need to approach this.