GirlChat #559308
Re: Bad Advice
Posted by lee lette on 2012-July-10 09:28:23 EDT, Tuesday
In reply to Bad Advice posted by Dante on 2012-July-10 05:20:47 EDT, Tuesday
That then is sufficient to define the situation? That the issue is far more complex and as shown by numerous cases, that children can actually enjoy the emotional closeness and physical sensations of sexual activity but feel deep unease about what they are doing and to realise later a different perspective. And no, it is not necessarily all down to how society views such relationships, many people do see a different truth about these situations than at the time because they have greater understanding later. Similarly the desire to re-enact such experiences is not sufficient justification as to the correctness for doing so if it contributes to further psychological or emotional damage or simply stops any feelings of closure.
I will agree that advice from such quarters is probably second-class, although I would have liked some personal one-to-one with PS when she was a lot younger!
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Responses
- Reenact? - Dante on 2012-July-11 10:39:52 EDT, Wednesday - (0 / 0 / 29)
- Re: Reenact? - lee lette on 2012-July-13 09:56:54 EDT, Friday - (0 / 0 / 28)
- Resolution? - Dante on 2012-July-14 07:05:20 EDT, Saturday - (0 / 0 / 12)
- Re: Resolution? - lee lette on 2012-July-14 09:33:43 EDT, Saturday - (0 / 0 / 11)
- Immune from Society? - Dante on 2012-July-15 05:45:14 EDT, Sunday - (0 / 0 / 0)
- Re: Resolution? - Baldur on 2012-July-14 09:43:35 EDT, Saturday - (0 / 0 / 9)
- Re: Resolution? - lee lette on 2012-July-14 10:03:19 EDT, Saturday - (0 / 0 / 8)
- Re: Resolution? - Dante on 2012-July-14 18:08:12 EDT, Saturday - (0 / 0 / 7)
- Re: Resolution? - lee lette on 2012-July-14 18:48:15 EDT, Saturday - (0 / 0 / 6)
- Re: Resolution? - Baldur on 2012-July-15 12:37:01 EDT, Sunday - (0 / 0 / 5)
- Re: Resolution? - lee lette on 2012-July-15 09:00:47 EDT, Sunday - (0 / 0 / 4)
- My case; Regret in hindsight w/ no abuse claim. - Dante on 2012-July-16 08:19:06 EDT, Monday - (0 / 0 / 1)
- Re: My case; Regret in hindsight w/ no abuse claim. - lee lette on 2012-July-16 10:30:59 EDT, Monday - (0 / 0 / 0)
- Re: Resolution? - Baldur on 2012-July-15 20:12:02 EDT, Sunday - (0 / 0 / 1)
- Re: Resolution? - lee lette on 2012-July-16 10:27:44 EDT, Monday - (0 / 0 / 0)
- My case; Regret in hindsight w/ no abuse claim. - Dante on 2012-July-16 08:19:06 EDT, Monday - (0 / 0 / 1)
- Re: Resolution? - lee lette on 2012-July-15 09:00:47 EDT, Sunday - (0 / 0 / 4)
- Re: Resolution? - Baldur on 2012-July-15 12:37:01 EDT, Sunday - (0 / 0 / 5)
- Re: Resolution? - lee lette on 2012-July-14 18:48:15 EDT, Saturday - (0 / 0 / 6)
- Re: Resolution? - Dante on 2012-July-14 18:08:12 EDT, Saturday - (0 / 0 / 7)
- Re: Resolution? - lee lette on 2012-July-14 10:03:19 EDT, Saturday - (0 / 0 / 8)
- Re: Resolution? - lee lette on 2012-July-14 09:33:43 EDT, Saturday - (0 / 0 / 11)
- Oh! - qtns2di4 on 2012-July-14 06:21:25 EDT, Saturday - (0 / 0 / 0)
- Re: Reenact? - Baldur on 2012-July-13 10:04:44 EDT, Friday - (0 / 0 / 13)
- Re: Reenact? - lee lette on 2012-July-13 10:22:02 EDT, Friday - (0 / 0 / 12)
- Re: Reenact? - Baldur on 2012-July-13 23:19:03 EDT, Friday - (0 / 0 / 2)
- By the way ... - lee lette on 2012-July-17 10:39:53 EDT, Tuesday - (0 / 0 / 1)
- Re: By the way ... - Baldur on 2012-July-18 09:04:59 EDT, Wednesday - (0 / 0 / 0)
- By the way ... - lee lette on 2012-July-17 10:39:53 EDT, Tuesday - (0 / 0 / 1)
- Re: Reenact? - BB on 2012-July-13 13:12:53 EDT, Friday - (0 / 0 / 8)
- Hey, get outta my head! - lee lette on 2012-July-13 21:13:10 EDT, Friday - (0 / 0 / 7)
- Re: Hey, get outta my head! - Dante on 2012-July-14 06:35:28 EDT, Saturday - (0 / 0 / 6)
- Re: Hey, get outta my head! - lee lette on 2012-July-14 08:36:27 EDT, Saturday - (0 / 0 / 5)
- Re: Hey, get outta my head! - BB on 2012-July-14 09:27:26 EDT, Saturday - (0 / 0 / 0)
- Re: Hey, get outta my head! - Baldur on 2012-July-14 09:10:07 EDT, Saturday - (0 / 0 / 3)
- Re: Hey, get outta my head! - lee lette on 2012-July-14 09:26:04 EDT, Saturday - (0 / 0 / 2)
- Re: Hey, get outta my head! - BB on 2012-July-14 09:32:29 EDT, Saturday - (0 / 0 / 1)
- Re: Hey, get outta my head! - lee lette on 2012-July-14 09:39:49 EDT, Saturday - (0 / 0 / 0)
- Re: Hey, get outta my head! - BB on 2012-July-14 09:32:29 EDT, Saturday - (0 / 0 / 1)
- Re: Hey, get outta my head! - lee lette on 2012-July-14 09:26:04 EDT, Saturday - (0 / 0 / 2)
- Re: Hey, get outta my head! - lee lette on 2012-July-14 08:36:27 EDT, Saturday - (0 / 0 / 5)
- Re: Hey, get outta my head! - Dante on 2012-July-14 06:35:28 EDT, Saturday - (0 / 0 / 6)
- Hey, get outta my head! - lee lette on 2012-July-13 21:13:10 EDT, Friday - (0 / 0 / 7)
- Re: Reenact? - Baldur on 2012-July-13 23:19:03 EDT, Friday - (0 / 0 / 2)
- Re: Reenact? - lee lette on 2012-July-13 10:22:02 EDT, Friday - (0 / 0 / 12)
- Resolution? - Dante on 2012-July-14 07:05:20 EDT, Saturday - (0 / 0 / 12)
- Re: Reenact? - lee lette on 2012-July-13 09:56:54 EDT, Friday - (0 / 0 / 28)
- Re: Bad Advice - Baldur on 2012-July-10 10:12:35 EDT, Tuesday - (0 / 0 / 0)