is just a kiss, a sight is just a sight.

Of course it's always enjoyable.

And by now, the preschooler has occasionally used tongue on me, I know.

But it's not that.

It's just, complicated.

I always enjoy it. However, it's different when her kiss is a sign of a relationship and when it's just for fun. When it's a sign of a relationship she is taking an oath and making me take one too. When it's just for fun it isn't so, but at the same time: if a relationship needs to be defended from the outside world, two do it, while a kiss just for fun, she wouldn't necessarily understand she has to defend it. It would be immaterial in a different society, but isn't in this one.