Re: loving little girls

Well I think you read the story I wrote of the girl who wanted to try French Kissing on me. That's not overtly sexual though so I don't know if that's what your looking for. It wasn't curiosity in my opinion that was the sole driver either there was desire in it. I didn't like having to tell her no, but I'm sure as she gets older she will be able to kiss plenty of guys who hopefully care deeply about her.

And of course there is the girl that asked a guy (not me) to show on her what to do to masturbate. For those who don't remember. She did it when several people were around. The guy never even got to answer no before her mother blew her top.

Is it because of something they saw and were they just curious? How exactly do you draw a line between were curiosity ends and desire begins?

I think that girls explore their sexuality earlier than boys for the most part. Like 6-8. So their parents tell them not to do it, that its bad and wrong for them. Children at that age are much more susceptible to believing anything their parents say. So they are much more likely to be hiding it strongly at the point when boys hit the age where they begin exploring that which is for the most part closer to puberty. The parents also react a lot less negatively to boys expressing anything sexual than girls. It's ok for boys to want to kiss girls at that age but not the other way around for the most part from what I've seen.

About 90% of the little girls I know have shown no interest in anything romantic toward me whatsoever. Is it because they know they will get punished for it if they do though? Or that as a young age they learned that they had to repress it? I don't know. I personally wish it was 100%. The worst thing in the world is having to say no. So count yourself lucky for never having been put into that situation.

As for Alice day. Why is everything about sex? There are other things to push for. Getting people to be compassionate to pedophiles who are completely obeying the law and not even ever going around children would be a start. How far you want it to go is up to you.

Next would be getting people to realize that its ok for us to be around children. As in keep laws in place but allow for better acceptance. We don't want to rape them (hopefully none of us here at least) We love children and would do anything to keep them safe. For me that means if you can prove that pedophiles are more dangerous to children than the general population in an accepting society than that means I would want all the laws that are there now kept in place. Even if that is ultimately detrimental to me. As long as the little girl is safer I'm fine with it.

After that there would be allowing pedophiles to kiss but nothing more.

Then maybe sexual contact but no penetration.

Then of course there is allowing penetration. Which is where I stop and wouldn't allow it. At least for now I would keep that illegal.

How far you want it to be able to go is up to you. I think the world would be much better and I think pedophiles would be more psychologically sound if those first 2 were allowed. And that's with everything staying the same with no laws being removed!