I don't claim to speak for B4U-ACT but ...

Your emotions and behavior are unstable and all over the place, and by your own admission, you're drinking to excess. You aren't in any condition to volunteer to join a group of tenured PhDs in a leadership role, much less make demands from them. If anything, it seems you are in need of their services.

They are helping nephew, and I trust they are doing a good job. Concerned_aunt said she was not part of any online community, knew nothing about us, and had no idea what to do. She found GC, then B4U-ACT, which is probably the best possible thing that could have happened, considering all all the other (mostly terrible) things that could have happened.

I know you wanted to help this person in particular, but he seems to be in good hands now, and there are plenty of other people out there in need of help.