Is it my fault

My husband blames me for my daughter high needs for touch or affection from others. Like I mentioned before on GC, my daughter loves to give hugs towards strangers, and it is a struggle to teach her personal space. She just overly affectionate towards people.

My husband was gone a long time due to employment so my daughter was my sleeping partner when she was younger, and we spooned. I stop breastfeeding her when she was almost 4. When she was an infant, she cohabit with me and my husband in bed due to breastfeeding. Now my husband is back, and she has to be a big girl. My husband thinks she use the nightmare excuse so she could sleep with us, and I agree. You don't get a nightmare after 5 minute of sleep. Sometime I wonder because I decrease the amount of attention I give her, she replacing it with others.