I don't see how I can be both guilty of assuming that GirlChat posters agree with me and of making an unnecessary post because all the GirlChat posters obviously agree with me.

Eh. I think you're missing the point. The statement "no adult-child sex in today's world" can be made in a way that it doesn't condemn adult-child sex altogether. You claim to speak for all GC'ers and then blatantly misrepresent the nuances of many the views here.

If you're going to disagree, then disagree. Don't spin the opposing perspective so that it's more in line with yours and then make posts like this; it comes off a passive-agressive.

I also suspect a post like this pisses people off because implying that the "no adult-child sex in today's world" message needs any emphasis at all is promoting the ticking time bomb theory we all despise so much.

I don't like posting this message because I know it's likely to get hostility. I assure you I'm not having any fun posting it.... Sorry to upset anyone.

I hear you. I just wish you didn't feel the need to... well, that stuff I mentioned above. You could have fulfilled that obligation of yours in a way that wasn't going to offend the majority of posters here.

Now I can't speak for anyone else, but as for why I personally "can't see" that obligation....

I don't feel the need to propagate the condemnation of the criminal activity of sex with minors because I don't assume people here are criminals, and I don't assume people here will become criminals, and I feel that to do so would be casting unnecessary judgment on a group of individuals who already face enough unnecessary judgement and persecution from every other angle in their lives that they certainly don't need it coming from their own community, especially not in what is likely the one place they feel they can expect to hang out online and not feel judged.

That is why I, personally, do not feel the need to post reminders about how bad our sexuality is or how bad things are going to get for us and especially our girls if our sexuality is acted out.

BOOM. Perspective. ;)

(And I know you don't think being a pedo is bad per se, but that's how some people might feel reading your post. Bottom line: you can get the same message accross in a much nicer way.)

- Rainbow