Ok, first of all welcome to Girl Chat. Pleas read the FAQ and the rules for posting.

From what I'm reading, for you maybe, this might actually be a helpful post I guess: https://www.annabelleigh.net/messages/599148.htm

Although you might already be aware of all that's stated in it, the guy who posted it would give us shit if we didn't link to it or say something similar ourselves ;)

Although I prefer the way 28 phrased it long before him, wish I had a post of his to link to because he said more than just this one sentence. "Never take your girl swimming in shark infested waters!"

Again, welcome to Girl Chat.