...not all pedophiles are child molesters...

You don't need to tell us that, LOL.

People who molest children are child molesters. Molestation, by definition, is non-consensual, a.k.a. against the child's will. I think you would be safe in assuming that any of us folks here at GC would tear apart anyone who was actually molesting a child.

Many of us, however, do not buy into the baseless assumption that all adult-child sexual behaviour is necessarily abusive.

Unfortunately, today's society is such that engaging in romantic/sexual relationship with an underager would be impractical at best and seriously damaging to both participants at worst.

...and having thoughts about children is not the same as acting on them...

I do a lot more than "have thoughts". My special LG and I are very close. Naturally, the relationship stays platonic, as it must (and, admitedly, might regardless)... But I have a very deep affection for her, and she reciprocates it.

I think you'll find that, for many of the posters here, their pedophilia goes far beyond simply "having thoughts". It is, after all, a board about Girl Love.

I'm not like a pathetic, sexless, desperate, loser.

Great! I don't usually get along well with pathetic, desperate losers. Though using "sexless" as if it has negative implications bugs me quite a bit. As an exclusive ped, I don't have the option of engaging sexually with women; therefore, I live my life in complete celibacy, and happily so. (Sex is highly overrated, in my opinion.)

Can't seem to contol my eyes nor do I want to though.

Good. You shouldn't feel you have to, either. If there's one thing that every single person on this board should agree on, it's that little girls are beautiful; just be careful not to oggle and make them uncomfortable.

Welcome to Girl Chat.

- Rainbow