There are safe ways to solve the problem. Just not here nor not now. If you are in your twenties (don't reply) then you might see such in the latter part of your life. Maybe.

Or, you could find a different society that is tolerant and un-interested in private lives. North America does not have such an attitude. The problem, you see, is with that silly "s" word: society.

Should anyone attempt to mold the "western" world into accepting natural events, I offer a word that should be considered carefully: repercussions. Posters here (Dante can be considered a poster, eh?), offering you suggestions, have discussed it. I shall illustrate a bit more:


Regarding this post and every post I write about myself describing my past, be advised that I was tried, convicted, sentenced to a very long time in prison, and I served the complete sentence. Be further advised that I am no longer practicing illegal activities today and that I refrain from doing so by my own choice, not from fear of legal entanglements or society's outrage. I remain crime free because I choose to.

I choose to because my Lover was injured by the society that objected to our involvement. Back then, She was a strong, decisive person and eventually told that part of society to stick it all up their collective anal orifices. Still, though, She did have to go through the bovine excrement. It is because of this harm done to Her, that I fear for any other Lover I may want to make love with.