Adoption isn't for me. If I adopted a girl, I would be sexually attracted to her. I think it is sneaky and dishonest to present yourself as a father, then morph into a lover. They are two different things. And I have two different needs ... to be a parent, and to be a lover. I don't want to mix the two. It's possible for me to be a father (not lover) to a girl who is not my biological child, but it would be difficult. There is a zero percent chance of me being sexually attracted to my biological child.

Good luck on your adoption plans.