GirlChat #601514
No safewords.
Safewords constitute an unambiguous "no," so that the person turned on by saying "no" can indicate it without breaking the mood. Think that your "submissive" housemate is too pervy? Get tired of the loud sex? Tape the encounter, call the cops and demonstrate the lack of positive "topping" by the "bottom" in order to deny them the sex they consent to. And at every point where the sex threatens to take their mind off of the present moment, force them to affirmatively instruct the other party as to what to do. Effectively the law places the sex partner in the "driver's seat." Which sounds like a great deal, unless you hired a chauffeur so you could take your mind off the road. Ms. Daisy will have to drive her own d*mn self. Dante |