I have a LGF. We're close. Nothing remotely illegal or even socially inappropriate goes on between us. She loves having me there as her big friend and protector, something I'm overjoyed to be able to give her.

I don't drool over her. I don't stare. I look, and she's noticed a few times, but she doesn't care.

If we end up in a wrestling match or a tickle fight, the physical contact *might* give me an erection *if I lose focus*, in which case I pull her off, say "okay, that's enough", and that's the end of it. No harm done.

I sometimes daydream about being intimate with her - nothing sexual, just cuddles, kisses and the like.

When I'm at home, in the privacy of my bedroom, and I'm in that "mood", occasionally she will come to mind, and I will fantasize about her.

Big whoop. She's a female who I find attractive. What do you expect?

Better tell every guy who's ever liked a girl to stay away from her, then. Already her friend? Too bad, you whacked off to her and are attracted to her presence, therefore you mustn't associate with her.

Do you see how that's nonsense?

- Rainbow