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Opening up to another friend

Posted by papersnow on Wednesday, October 01 2014 at 07:27:27AM

So I decided to open up to another good friend of mine about the fact that I am exclusively sexually and romantically attracted to little girls. After a bit of preparation, I told another friend who knows, and he came along with me when we went out into the "moral wilderness" to find a quiet, secluded place to talk and not be overheard. Now, something very important to note here is that she IS a victim of child sexual abuse by her father. This is an obvious reason for why she would be biased against what I said - except she's a friggin genius (not an exaggeration) and she accepted me whole heatedly and didn't let past experiences blind her. She is kind of the mom-friend in my little group of friends, and she has powerful mothering instincts - thus we both connect on that we absolutely love children. Now we provide mutual support to each other, probably the best way this could have ever ended up. I'm so happy because of this. We just talked and hugged afterwards... Ha, she thought I was asexual before this. I haven't told her everything on this topic, but I've told her a good bit - we haven't discussed the idea of a child's capability towards consent and sex, but I feel that will go positively as well.
I still feel incredibly fortunate I have friends like I do - and now they speak out against ignorance on this subject too!

Sometimes I forget how the vast majority feels about us

I feel like this is a very unique case - do any of you know of a child sexual abuse victim who was able to accept you as a GL?
Oh, how many of you are out, whether to one, a few, or many?

I wonder... For gays it's coming out if the closet, so do we have a specific phrase?




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