jacksummer:

thanks for the reply. i read somewhere, a psychology textbook for college that prepubescent children cannot yet combine lust with affection. :/ Uhm, its hard for me to imagine not being able to do so.
i suppose youre right about them not developing a complex. although with everything being illegal Ive had to question things and you know, come up with answers as to why it may be illegal. guess there are millions of answers.
anyways, like i said earlier... i would not want to take any risk ever that may harm her, and i doubt me saying we'll have to wait for sex would cause any harm. yet again, i suppose its possible.
blah. i tend to overthink things on occassion. and i guess im not all that smart and perhaps a little crazy. nonetheless, i dont want to hurt anybody in any way or end up in trouble.

thanks again,