Pedophiles, at least the self-accepting, tend to be particularly good at connecting with children, and at treating them in a respectful, empowering way. The result are children who are happy to be with you, seek you out, trust you and rely and you; and who feel empowered to speak their minds and take their own decisions when they are with you. Because of that, children also rely more on your advice than they usually would with the average adult.

I used to think this ability was entirely natural, and part of the "package" of pedophilia. I no longer think so. There may be natural differences in talent, but now I think it is a learned ability at least as much. I believe so because I can see how I have myself become a better groomer over the years. Even though it is probably since always that I have had a good supply of natural grooming ability.

You sir, whether or not you have a natural ability, have learned grooming well.