Listen to the songs "Easy Lover" ("Easy lover
She'll get a hold on you believe it
Like no other
Before you know it you'll be on your knees
She's an easy lover
She'll take your heart but you won't feel it
She's like no other
And I'm just trying to make you see

She's the kind of girl you dream of
Dream of keeping hold of")

and "You'll Be In My Heart" ("I will protect you
From all around you
I will be here
Don't you cry

For one so small,
You seem so strong
My arms will hold you,
Keep you safe and warm")

Also, "Against All Odds" (just the title says it all).

I have long thought Phil Collins is a girl lover.