I don't know your situation luvlo12 so this is not aimed at you.

There are lots of girls out there guys and, in my experience many are willing and open to having a man friend outside their family. AND there are more parents than society and media would have you believe that have no big problem with that friendship either.

As qtns2di4 has said, and I'm a subscriber to this too, 'every girl needs a pedo'. If we'd all get off our computers for a couple hours a day and go out and meet these girls and shed our fear that someone will think the 'wrong thing', our 'cause' would advance fast in the right direction.

Girl next door? Girl at church? Girl at the grocery store? Say hi. I does NOT need to be or even appear 'creepy' if it is genuine.

Girls make AWESOME friends to lonely pedos. It doesn't always have to be about sex. Just being around girls is a wonderful thing; it will likely make you happier overall and that alone makes the world a better place.

I have two unrelated girls that I consider friends and vice verse. I don't see them much but, when I do, it is uplifting.