I tend to like everybody, except sadists and fascists. I too thought this place would be more friendly, but who else is constantly scrutinized and hated like we are? Everything we say could be used against us. We have to be careful not to say too much about ourselves, lest our life could be destroyed. Knowing duplicitous predators can pose as friends breeds suspicion. This is hardly a normal environment. You have to give us some slack, not hold us to higher standards than everybody else.

Misfit is fine by me.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Misfits_of_Science