As I said (I think) when I applied "grooming" to my relationships with adult females it matched perfectly.

I think a lot of it might be projection as well. Adult sexuality is all messed up in most developed nations. Men fuck and women are fucked. Men hunt and women are the prey. Even though female sexuality is more accepted and open this idea is still prevelant.

Now with children people assume it is the norm when a paedosexual is courting the child (or vice versa!). People are applying their adult sexuality to any relationship.