Yes ! That's what i mean. Other wise it's just a power trip for the abuser.
I am still in contact with my Brother. But am extremity disappointed in him. Yes his daughter. And my sisters re my Father all have sociological problems. One is 67 and the other is 62. A life sentence. from where im standing. That is why. If, And it's a darn big If. I am ever lucky enough to have a relationship with a LG. It will be on a caring and love basis.
We cant pick who's in our family ! But it did make me wonder id i " inherited" a specific for want of a word. Gene. That makes me who i am in that regard. Mind you. I sure am happy that I desire LG's. They are great!