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Re: A bad anti argument I hear

Posted by Dissident on Wednesday, December 17 2014 at 03:50:08AM
In reply to Re: A bad anti argument I hear posted by SierraWhiskey on Wednesday, December 17 2014 at 00:27:25AM

I think women in their early twenties have an attractiveness in the eyes of many that one could use to argue against their being controlled, since they should be able to easily find someone else.

Indeed. Because younger women generally have so many options available to them, they know they can afford to be picky. Moreover, since they still tend to change very fast in comparison to the typical older person, their feelings can be quite fleeting, no matter how strong it may seem initially. It's one of the things older people with a preference for their age group must adapt to and deal with. They also tend to be as rebellious against authority as any underage adolescent - which they still were in the not so distant past - and thus are not typically submissive to any older person, whom they tend to identify with "authority" simply because we tend to be in the same age group as their parents. Their supposed easiness to control as a group is solely part of a mythical narrative designed to justify a certain still popular type of prejudice, and to attempt to besmirch the character of both partners in the relationship (albeit in different ways).

So with all of the above being the case, why don't I seek out that nice 45-year-old woman down the street who would most likely be less picky than the average 19-year-old girl? Two major reasons, with the second being the most important:

1) As a hebephile who is very young-minded, I tend to mesh considerably better on an emotional and social level with much younger women, who are as close as I can legally get to being with my true preferred age group; and, 2) My preferences on all levels are not a choice; I would not mesh well socially with the 45-year-old, and I would have no inclination to be physically intimate with her. Were I to lie and lead her on just to placate societal expectations, I would truly be committing an unethical against her, because I am fully aware from the get-go that I cannot give her a genuine romantic relationship, and she deserves to have that as much as I do.

There are also same-age relationships where the woman is controlled by an abusive man, though, I take it, it's not exactly the same kind of control.

In the case of same-age abusive relationships, they are treated as a "commonplace anomaly," if that makes sense. Most people never try to explain why so many older women in abusive relationships seem to lack this mysterious uber-assertiveness that the narrative ascribes to them as a rule; or why so many younger women end up in abusive relationships with men in the same age group, when the common narrative considers them "perfect" and "appropriate" for each other.



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