There is a strong tendency on GC for people to sigh wistfully about how great adult-girl love could be. Everything would end perfectly, but it's based on assumptions that all circumstances would be perfect -- a sensitive, understanding pedophile who easily submerges any carnal desires to whatever his girl chooses. And a girl who knows her mind, can communicate clearly and turns out to like sex. I know such things are possible because of the occasional adult woman who recalls her childhood sexual experiences with adults fondly.

But there is very little about how things can go wrong, and how the same rules that might not be needed for ideal cases are needed for cases where the participants are less than ideal, and to an even greater extent the ones where men do not even have good intentions.

No, I have never had a LGF. But I learned quite a bit about girls from my daughters and their friends. I had crushes on some of their friends, and we had nice interactions sometimes that meant a lot more to me than they knew. But my concerns are not relaxed because of some of the best cases, as I know of the less-than-ideal cases that lurk.