my similar experience

i had a similar experience at a summer camp where i worked as a cook. at mealtimes, we'd all sit on the porch and eat. often, i'd have once special LG near me and then another one would join us and want my attention. one time, i had 3 or 4 all around me obviously fighting over me! i was in heaven, although a bit embarassed for all the eyes watching us. but, as always, i played it cool like it was normal and healthy (because, well, it IS for heaven's sake!).. an older lady friend of mine told me that i reminded her of the "pied piper" and had all these little girl's attentions.. and i told her, quite honestly, that i love the attention. see? i could be quite honest with her without implying that i'm some kind of pervert.

that's why i think it's all a matter of definition and connotation. otherwise, it's all just LOVE..

--endlestar