Let's talk when I have time to read

Foreverman, I really feel for you here. I read part of your first message and snippets of other stuff on this Subject tree, and when I have time I will read it all and figure out what to say.

But this I can say now: Your situation calls for good social skills sincerely and discreetly applied. You must proceed softly and come across as a nice and stable person. Reassure everyone that you would never do harm -- I mean, act in a reassuring manner and tell people this when it's suitable to talk. No hard sells here. Above all, you want S to resist being damaged by unfair accusations of you.

OK, I shouldn't go too far without reading what you wrote first. I now have a working email address above. If you're set up to send email anonymously, please send me mail to remind me to talk to you. Otherwise, if you haven't seen another response from me, get someone else to send me mail.

Is it possible to walk away? Only as a last resort. Now, the question is, is it possible to get past prejudice.