I have to judge from what I can see.

And since I rarely get to see the, um... "special thing" to tell whether there's any hair, that leaves the chest, which either has unsightly distortions, or not. I suppose if I ever did get to see if there was hair or not, my preference would be that there wasn't one hair long enough to touch another one.

And it isn't just the physical form, either, it's their personality changes at about the same time, into a sort of person I find less appealing to be around. And they lose the ability to truly giggle about the same time, I think (maybe that's part of being less appealing, though).

So I guess I'm not as alone as I felt after all these polls and stuff talking about all the options that aren't possible for me (us). So what do we do instead, to keep from going insane?