Re: Does it really help?

To them you are the guy who jerks off at photo's of kids in fashion catalogues, and silently watches Full House in his room. They will tell to family and friends at parties "he never had luck with women, but we still love him". See, for YOU it's obvious because you know the signs...but for others youre a loser. So they don't know who you really are

I think its impossible to let them find out, as long as they arent educated about what a paedophile really is. Like you CAN let them find out when youre gay these days, since most people now know what it really is: an orientation.

To answer your question:
Yes it does. She doesnt even have to accept it. Just knowing that she knows what I am and how I feel about it, will be a HUGE relief for me.