Re: My first, quick answer

So many replies to read... *loop* ...so many replies to write

Today went really shit because I wanted to tell her...but she was all busy with appointments and stuff. And since I really want her to sit down for this, I didn't do it. Maybe tomorrow I will have more luck. (normally she isn't this busy)

Most of the times it really is the start of a conversation about such difficult subjects that I find hard. I just sit down...and she looks at me waiting for me to start talking...and I feel like running away screaming :p

I think I will start the conversation with summing up some of the visible problems I've had during the years...and then work to what they were actually linked to in the way you suggested. Because I've been having these "mysterious" small depressions and mood swings for a while. She hasn't got a clue where they came from (me finding out what I am, and for a while even trying to ignore the feelings). This will put her more into a mood of "why didn't you tell me earlier about this?" instead of "you are WHAT??!!" ;)

Thanks for your suggestions on how to work around the "magic moment". That will make it sound a LOT less shocking if I explain it to her that way :)