Re: That's the problem...

Hi, Nerpenthe,

...of having to force myself to adapt to the sexual desires of adult women in my age group, most of whom loathe kissing and making out and want to do nothing but penetration for hours on end..."

And the problem is? Hahaha.

The problem is two-fold. 1) Their particular sexual preferences do not mirror my own, and it's not fun to have to force yourself to endure something that is not particularly pleasant and/or fulfilling to yourself simply because you have no other choice most of the time; and 2) I don't care to see the majority of these women naked in the first place, so it's very hard to "get into it."

Holy smokes Dissident. If I experienced what you just described above, I would be interested in why these women are drawn to me if I am conflicted about their mere temporal proximity, instead of musing over what others have been taught through their invidious sociopolitical conditioning.

These women are drawn to me, I presume, simply because I'm in their age group, and they thus assume that I have interests that are in line with their own. Otherwise, I have no idea why older adult women seem to be so romantically drawn to MAA's of any predilection. This topic has been discussed here before by myself and others, with no satisfactory answers coming out of it. The nearest I can figure is that since many women desire a challenge and enjoy mystery in a man, nothing comes off as more challenging or "mysterious" than a man who does not return their interest.

Do you mean to reveal you live near the beach? Or was that a 'for instance...'? If the beach is neigh, I would be mincing ALL over those dunes--that is, if the waves were not ridable.

Yep, I live just a few blocks from a beach area in a nearly year-round hot weather climate. Nevertheless, all of my friends rarely want to go to the beach...they're mostly a bunch of old fogies whom I happen to love quite a bit, but who nevertheless have entirely different social interests than I have. They have "grown up," whereas I haven't, as I basically remain an adolescent boy on the inside in regards to my social interests.

Regards,

--Dissident