i tend to assume that...

setting aside the fake antis who actually do know the truth, and are only farming these issues for profit, or to protect themselves from discovery, the majority of the genuine antis - the ones who really are scared of us and/or what we might do - are objecting either because they got hurt themselves, or (and i suspect this condition might be rather more common than i find comfortable) are projecting their own hidden (or perhaps unrecognised) desires onto us.

it's been said that the average homophobe is actually a latent homosexual, or has buried (sublimated) the attraction in light of the social stigma.

we more often hurt the ones we love...