let's play 'divide the girl lovers' -yayyy

The very reason Lindsay gets frustrated is that he doesn't want to be anyone's leader. He's just one of the few who are out, by choice, and who is wise enough to not do crazy shit that reflects badly on everyone else. You don't know the personal burden he bears, mainly because he so rarely complains about it. I don't believe you even begin to grasp what a person in that sort of position has to endure. If blowing up at a message board and blowing off some steam once in a while helps him get by, then granting him that privilege and biting tongues is the least we can do.

Anyone who denies that there aren't a lot of lazy fucks and apathetic whiners on these boards is lying to themselves. It just happens to be true, and sometimes the truth hurts, especially when one sees themself as one of those lazy fucks. If it offends you, then it means you know you should be doing more yourself. Not everyone is capable of doing very much, but there are far more who are capable, but still aren't.