Most of what we’ve built up with this community is still pretty much out of the public eye. We’ve taken our status as witches and tinkered with it and called ourselves Girl Lovers, to give ourselves an identity where we can find some respite. But to the outside, it’s still a witch-identity. We’ve seen what happens when one of those goes public (look at NAMBLA). As I’ve stated before, the Girl Lover identity just about does its job as a bulwark with which people can shelter themselves from the excesses of the hysteria of the outside world. Like all identity politics it’s deeply flawed, but it allows its adherents some kind of sanctuary.

How exactly does the identity-label "infantfucker resistance" fit in with your escapism model of self-image?

...just curious...

The fact that anyone could donate would a strength...

What a coincidence; BLCharity didn't refuse donations on account of orientaiton. :p

People here need to stop deluding themselves into thinking that all we have to do is show the world that there are nice paedophiles as well as nasty paedophiles...

~sigh~

...and this is what irks everyone to fuck with you.

...who the fuck gave you the right to dictate others' strategy, beliefs and motivations to them?

Here's a hint : "infantfucker" as an honorific of adress wasn't quite adopted for this "image sissification" that you repeatedly tell me is my one-true-motivation. Perhaps that should give you a beginning clue.

So...

~sigh~

and then the public will say ‘oh, that’s OK then! We got this silly notion into our heads that you were all babyrapers...

...already has. "Anti" and "non" are different terms, and I suggest you learn the appropriate one.

Now, here's a question :

...would you attack a charity for having queers in its administration if it weren't for the will of these hate groups whose opinion you're so sensitive to?

Right. Why the fuck do you take orders from them??

When you let a hate group live your life for you - you've let them win.

Forget about this "but if we use BLC we will be seen as love-and-light" bullshit you can't get out of your head.

Forget about this "but the hate groups will say we're bad people if we do any outreach" bullshit. They hate you if you don't, as well : nothing has changed.

Fucking drop it and do as you would have before.

...sorry it's taken such a long thread to get you to consider anything outside the asskiss paradigm, but... fuck. Drop it, dude. Let it go and live.

Please... and at the very least, quit projecting it on those of us with more mental health than you. Thanks.