Attraction should be about more than looks. Its possible to be attracted by looks at first sight. But its very rare to have such an in-depth first encounter as to fall for someone's personality at first meeting. True, although I don't think I could allow myself to get close to someone whose body I found physically disgusting. Whenever I hear men describe the attraction they feel for the physical features of women, it just makes me think of a farmer talking about how he chooses his cows based on the best udders. I know that sounds horribly offrnsive, but I don't mean women are cows (well, I've seen some...). What I mean is they (and men too) seem like such a different species from the way I feel inside that to be attracted to one would almost be like being attracted to some kind of animal. I mean, cows aren't ugly per se, but they and their udders are definitely not something that I can imagine seeing sexual appeal in. That's the way I feel toward adults and their bodies. So when I hear men's opinions about women's breast size, and pubic hair and so forth (or women's opinions about men's penis size and musculature) to me it sounds like judges at a county fair explaining what they look for in healthy livestock!