I've never understood what people meant by "emotionally ready" or "psychologically ready".

My stance is, if it feels good and everyone's happy with what's going on, then it *is* good.

If it feels bad for someone involved, then it should be stopped immediately.

Frankly, I don't see what's so objectionable about that. But when I say it, people get absolutely shocked.

They say things like "Oh, it may feel good, but they're not ready." What does that mean?? Either the interaction was harmful or it wasn't! And if it felt good and was consensual, then where's the harm? Nobody's been able to answer that question. They just bluster and babble and look like idiots. (it's kind of funny, actually).

I hear your frustration! Illogical people are very annoying to talk to.

P.S. I believe the term "sex worker" is a little more PC :)
(as opposed to "hooker")