I agree with both you and Dante here

But I must confess that I find it VERY creepy...and VERY hurtful...when girls or women who are NOT truly interested in me start flirting with me and then accuse me of "creeping them out" when I reciprocate. I agree with Dante that initial flirtations should be treated with caution. No argument there. But I also agree with turtle that if a girl or woman flirts with a guy they don't like, they need to realize that he MIGHT take them seriously. I absolutely hate it when a female "tests" her flirting skills on me, and then calls me a letch when I react positively to it. It's true that most men despise a tease, and with GOOD REASON. Why? Because it HURTS and makes a guy feel like total shit when a female does that to him.