And here... is where you misunderstand.

I never accused you of doing this. None of what I said was about you or your situation, and yet you seem determined to make it about you. Many women do this. No one is saying that you do, because no one here knows you well enough to make a judgement on that. What must we do to make you understand that our world doesn't revolve around you and that most things that we say have absolutely nothing to do with you?

If you just absolutely have a need to take offense at anything that you can twist into believing is about you, then feel free to do so. I can't stop you from making everything about you in your own mind. Just know that nothing that I said was about you personally... until you decided to make everything about you and refused to allow people to talk about things that didn't include you.