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damn - yes, i see

Posted by albertRoss on Saturday, January 06 2007 at 3:13:44PM
In reply to Your searching right posted by emovocals on Friday, January 05 2007 at 11:18:37PM

i'm sorry, but you may just have to face it - you're out.

i'd first like to say that i regret any part i may have had in encouraging you to be so open in the first place. i'm making excuses, i know, but i keep forgetting that out is a choice, and everything i post is from the perspective of someone trying to make the best of a bad job.

i'm guessing you're in that horrible position of not knowing when, if or how, the shit might hit you, and i can't think of any sensible advice to offer, other than...

i can think of two approaches - the first is to accept that the danger is real, and give up your work with children. unfortunately this is the most sensible suggestion, as hard as that might be.

the only alternative that comes to mind is to carry through, and explain the truth to your employers. i'm not sure i should be suggesting that at all, so please understand that what i'm proposing is exceptionally dangerous...

it's just that, here in canada, this approach has worked quite well for me, and i've managed to earn, in some cases, the respect of people who would otherwise have screamed blue bloody murder, had i been caught out of bounds.

it's like this... (assuming i have any idea what your situation is like)

a. you carry on and hope nobody finds out, and all hell breaks loose if they do.

b. you give some other explanation, and quit - if they happen to find out anyway, all hell still breaks loose.

c. you give them the real story - either all hell breaks loose, or maybe, just maybe, you get respect for honesty.

in closing - please don't assume i have a clue what the hell i am talking about, and if you need advice, try get it from someone more sensible than i am.




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