you should start a new thread

have a ton a of questions, namely, what do you go through when you realize that you have an attraction to children? Or, is that even the right question? What is the number one thing you would want people to know about this community?

Start a new thread with a poll. Nothing personally identifying, of course.

I'd say that the number one thing would be that child lovers are pretty much like other people, except we are attracted to children. Some of us are really nice people, most of us are pretty average, and a few are bad - just like with people who are attracted to men or women.

The rest can wait for a poll. You'll see that there is quite a bit of variety here, and a few broad themes.