I'm sorry that you don't believe my story completely. My husband dying was a big deal to all three of us. My 15 year old son is just now starting to show signs of depression because of losing his father. I met my boyfriend through my kids at church. We all thought that maybe he would bring some happiness into our lives. He did actually until all of this happened. But, life is life and I am trying to figure out what to do now. I am not making my daughter testify. I had nothing to do with his being arrested. He turned himself in. The district attorney is making both of us testify. We have suponeas to appear in court. Imagine how I feel having to testify. I love him and I want to help him as much as I can. The good thing is all I can testify with is what he told me after my daughter told me what he had been doing to her. I did have more questions, but maybe I should just leave it be. I don't want to piss anyone off. Thanks for the information though. It has helped me understand what society thinks about pedophiles is not right at all.