Re: I shouldn't hate being a pedo. (Emot. train wr

Hi F. P. J. Mask,

I don't post a great deal here either, because this board is a bit too fast-moving for me, and by the time I have read something it is already well down the board.

I sympathize with how you are feeling. It is a pity that your friends that you had have disavowed your friendship. It is to be expected that this is hurtful and upsetting, and something that you might go back and think about and wish it could have been different.

But in some ways this could present an opportunity to move on and do new things. Look on it as an education in human relationships, and as a time that was good for what it was. Just don't be held back by people and situations that are past now.

I find that when I am down about things like this, it is helpful to realize that I am in no way attached to things that have happened. I can move to a new place, make new friends, start a new job... if I want to. And it is best to look on past mistakes or bad experiences as educational, and take from them the good and useful parts. Also remember that most people make mistakes and have problems in their lives in some way. It is something that can be dealt with, and it is not necessary to beat yourself up about things that have gone wrong.

Anyway, I don't know if any of that is relevant for you. I am sorry you not feeling too good, but I hope that you find things to look forward to and that you feel better before too long.