Re: Questions

Firstly, there's a whole variety of posters here, different levels of attraction, and though I understand you not wishing to delve through all the muck to find the gems, trust me, there are some of us who, when we look at little girls, we *still* "think of princesses and cardboard castles, tea parties, playing with mom's make-up and things like that". In fact those words you wrote made me smile more today than I have all week (I'm really sorry if that creeps you out, believe me it couldn't be less sinister). You can be that and be this too. When you look at women/men, do you only ever think of body parts and interchanging fluids? Or do you see some of them as human beings too?

Secondly, assuming all 6-year-old girls are exactly like your niece in their knowledge of sex is gonna annoy some of the people here (I know, you probably don't care about annoying a bunch of pedophiles, but I'm just saying ...). Trust me, all 6-year-old girls are not exactly like your niece. I don't know about *that* young, but even *I'm* shocked by how much girls not much older than that already know about sex etc compared, say, to when I was young. Just look at the clothes you can buy them for a start. I'm not saying that this makes having sex with them suddenly ok - I'm just pointing out that just one child you know personally is a really bad benchmark to use. I'm pretty sure that my aunt would be about the *last* person my sister would've gone to about sex matters when she was that age.

Anyway. Assuming I haven't stepped over the mark with any of that and you're still reading ... Your questions ...

I'm attracted to little girls because I think they're the most perfect thing God (or whatever higher power or biological process you want to blame) put here on the earth. They are simply amazing from the purely aesthetic shape down to the things they say and their tiniest mannerisms (yes, these things occur occasionally in other bodies - even *gasp* when they grow - but *so* much more frequently and reliably in little girls).

I hope that's a detailed enough response. Quite honestly, I believe, "why do you like men/women?" is a *perfectly* valid response to that question. I genuinely "just do" as you put it.

Your second question is simply way too broad. You put taking nude pics of children in the same breath practically as full-on molestation. I'm sure even you can see the massive difference between those two acts. For me it's fairly simple. If a child is hurt, then the person who hurt them is wrong.

I have no interest in having sex with children because I'm already dedicated to someone (yes, she's legal, if you must know). But just like that won't stop her getting a little wet over Johnny Depp every now and then, hey maybe when she "should" be thinking about me lol ... neither is it gonna make me deny my attraction to something I find frankly wonderful. But just like I'm sure she's never gonna jet off to Paris and stalk poor Johnny down on a Metro train, I'm never gonna go hiding behind tumbleweeds waiting for a vulnerable girl on her way home from school. At the end of the day even if I *wanted* to be that creepy cliché, I'm simply too busy.

Which I guess answers your third question - yeh, I'm attracted to all kinds of things. I like things that appeal to me. Unlike most of the adult world I don't have any preset rules for what that might be, I didn't sit down one day and have the talk with myself deciding what I am and how that's gonna dictate all my future relationships and fantasies.

But in all cases, the same rule applies and it boggles my mind how so many people can't see how simple it is: Just because you're attracted to something, doesn't mean you plan to harm it.

It doesn't even make *sense* when put like that.

If you're scared for your niece, that's fine. Wrap her in skorts and bubblewrap and take her to school under armed guard. I don't know your situation or level of care in regards your sister or anything, but the fact is that even if you're her primary guardian now, she's not gonna be yours forever, and overprotecting her now could hurt her more in the future than the risk she'll run into a "bad" one of "us" now.

When you go out in public, you're *in* public, doesn't matter what your age, people ogle, people judge, and some people intend to hurt you. People are sick people, it's not just pedophiles, there are *millions* of monsters out there and most don't even discriminate. In my experience pedophiles have more respect for children that most adults can even begin to contemplate.