Re: Questions

Hi.

I am happy to answer your questions or anyones in the everlasting hope that I can ease the mind of at least one person.

Why do I 'think' I am attracted to lg's? first of all there is no 'thinking' about it, I will assume you are attracted to other women since you were looking for a lesbian site, so that would be the same as me asking why you 'think' you are attracted to women...or men...or whatever. And you really answered your own question. If you can't answer why you are attracted to men/women, why would you expect any of us to answer that same question about our attraction?

You want a truthful answer on why? The truth is I don't know. I have looked for that answer all my life and there is no answer. It really just is, like you are attracted to women or monkeys like bananas or why the sky is blue (okay...I do have an answer for that one, but should get my point).

You're not going to get an answer to that question, because we don't have that answer. Nobody does.

Is it ok to have sex with a child. That's a tricky question, but the answer you want is no, it's not ok.

In a different time, place and society, is sex inherently harmful to a child? not necessarily, not if it is a loving consensual act. Yes it could be harmful.

Is a girl capable of consenting even? I don't know that either, but I operate on the assumption of no.

I am not attracted to any other group.

The whole problem with our situation is the morality issue and how kids and sex in the same sentence send most adults running around screaming with their hands over their ears. They like to pretend that children are completely asexual beings and any evidence to the contrary is either evil or cute role playing.

Since most men are beyond cute, any interest we show in children instantly becomes evil. Sure there are lots of bad pedophiles out there, that will hurt children, but there are also lots of bad hetersexuals out there that will hurt women.

For myself, I have a big heart, and couldn't ever hurt anyone. I fall in love easily and only want to be loved back. Yet a heterosexual man can go to a bar, meet a women who is obviously to drunk to consent to sex, screw her and he is cool. Yet if I allowed an 11 year old girl to kiss me, completely of her own free will, I would be arrested. And I am still perceived as the evil one. Can you understand how our society's morality is messed up??

And then look at statistics. Your niece is much, MUCH more likely to die in a car accident than be approached by a child molester (who may or may not be a pedophile). So why do we scare you more than letting her into a car? Because you were taught to think that a child's protection from sex is more important than their own lives.

Sorry for ranting...hope I made some sense to you.