Re: Questions

How cute! This again...

I don't want this to turn into a flame. If you find my words rude or wrong, please correct me politely and I'll apologize for them.

[The author of this post does not wish to get registered, just to make this one and only post: "I just want some answers and not to go back there ever again." NFiH]

Fair enough.

When I was about eight, an unknown man tried to make me go into his car so he could "take me to the beach" *I was on my way to the public pool* and insisted about it until I run away in tears and scared out of my mind. I never talked to a stranger again during the rest of my childhood and my early teenage years. Then another man, this one known by my family, tried to touch me *and I'm not talking about my arm* and even offered me money to go with him, saying that he was being generous because I was "fresh" and that he could find a hooker for way less but he liked me better. I was twelve then and could confront him. He left me alone when I threatened him to call the police if he ever dared to even look at me or any of my friends again.

That was neither me nor anyone here that I know of. Those two guys do sound like real assholes. Hate to sound blunt but get over it. Something bad may have happened but didn't. Let's move on now...

These two episodes have been in my mind since then and I still can't understand why someone can be sexually attracted to a little girl.

Why would someone be bi and/or lesbian? I don't get it, so it's wrong?

When I see one of them, I just think of princesses and cardboard castles, tea parties, playing with mom's make-up and things like that.

These are beautiful things, to be sure

I thought about it a thousand times but I still can't understand why anybody would be aroused by them, they're so tiny and fragile, an adult would hurt them if s/he tried anything sexual with them.

Define anything.

And if you mean hurt emotionally, that has more to do with nurture than nature. There have been societies in history in which IGL relations were not prohibited, in fact encouraged, without those societies being plagued with the co-dependent, psychologically shattered women we find today.

They don't even understand sex yet! *please, don't try to prove me wrong on this point, I have a niece who's 6 and I know for a fact she doesn't understand what it is*

Your opinion on paedophilia in whole is based on two assholes(who, I'll agree with Joey Bishop on this, doesn't sound like proper girl lovers and definitely not your average GCer). So this doesn't surprise me that your niece, a product of modern hysteria like yourself, should represent all girldom.

Reading this board, I have to say I'm scared of letting her go out of my sister's house anymore. I'm sorry but things like "OMG! That 8 year-old girl is HOT!" or "I saw a LG wearing a dress and she was wearing white cotton panties, nice view!" scare me. A LOT.

Why? Because of those two assholes? Meh

BTW, there is no threat in things like that being said. Youre highly irrational and paranoid.

I hope knowing the answer to my questions can take the fears away ot, at least, make them smaller.

Agreed.

-Why do you think you're attracted to LG? Please, don't answer that with "Just because" or "Why are you attracted to men/women?" because I can answer that. I really want a truthful answer to this one.

Just am. (BTW, Id honestly be interested in hearing a legitimate, tangible reason other than natural inclination for any non-paed orientation that doesnt involve the words big tits or men are assholes.)

- If a pedophile molests/has sex/tries to have sex/takes nude pics of a LG *I'm not talking about a teen here, I'm talking about a child*, do you think that is a correct behaviour?

Molestation? No. Has sex? Depends on the situation. Tries to have sex? Do you mean courting? Nude pics? If she doesnt mind.

Would it be different if it wasn't illegal or you trace it there thinking about the children and not just the law?

The law has no bearing on my opinion, only my action.

- Are you sexually attracted to other people/things/whatever or just LG?

Of course not. But it was nice to meet you anyway, Unoriginal Bigot.