Answers?

I wanted to respond to this post last night, but didnt have time to return to the forum, and at this point, doesn't look like I can add much to the great responses.

Glad you're asking some questions, though your distaste for us is obvious and your opinions are clearly negative. I understand you had some bad experiences in your youth that coloured your opinions regarding us (most people dont require these kinds of experiences to hate us), but if you've read the posts we make here, you'll perhaps notice that we arent discussing ways to touch girls, or the best ways to trick them into getting into our cars. That's not what it is to be a pedophile, and the men you encountered may or may not have been pedophiles, but likely had other issues, separate from any sexual orientation, that led to their behaviour. I hope you'll consider this and be open minded as you read these posts.

As for me, being attracted to girls is a part of who I am. It feels right. It feels natural, much as I assume it must feel for a homosexual man and his feelings for other men. This doesnt mean I intend to abduct or rape little girls, any more than it means that a homosexual man will abduct and rape men; it's ridiculous to think so.

You say that young girls dont understand sex; this may be true, if for no other reason than adults shield them from anything remotely sexual until theyve reached/almost reached adulthood, but they understand love. They feel it keenly, and can return it. They understand affection and intimacy. They love hugs, and give them often, as well as the occaissional kiss.

Right now, its illegal for an adult to have a physical relationship with a child, so I don't, and I recommend against anybody doing it. But I dont see any problem with 2 people sharing close, physical contact. This doesn't mean a large adult male forcibly penetrating a small, helpless girl, as I'm sure is your image of it, but it can mean other things. Hugging, kissing, mutual touching, among other things, provided it is consensual.

I hope some of the posts here can give you a new perspective on pedophilia. There's more to it than what you see in the media, who frequently misuse the word 'pedophile.' Please keep an open mind as you read the answers posted here.