Re: Questions

So many things to comment here! I really liked your post a lot, thank you for your answers *^^*

In fact those words you wrote made me smile more today than I have all week (I'm really sorry if that creeps you out, believe me it couldn't be less sinister).

I didn't find it creepy at all. In fact, I'm really glad my words made you smile. Your post made me smile too, even laugh out loud at some points!

- When you look at women/men, do you only ever think of body parts and interchanging fluids? Or do you see some of them as human beings too?

- But in all cases, the same rule applies and it boggles my mind how so many people can't see how simple it is: Just because you're attracted to something, doesn't mean you plan to harm it.

It doesn't even make *sense* when put like that.

All I have to say about that is: you're right and that I should've learnt by now that thinking before judging/writing/whatever is ALWAYS a good thing. Being biased and uninformed didn't help either. Once you think about it, it makes no sense at all.

(I know, you probably don't care about annoying a bunch of pedophiles, but I'm just saying ...).

I care. Liking one thing or another doesn't make you less of a human being and you have feelings too. I'm the one who came to your web, you didn't went to mine, and I have no right whatsoever to insult you or disrespect you.

I don't know about *that* young, but even *I'm* shocked by how much girls not much older than that already know about sex etc compared, say, to when I was young. Just look at the clothes you can buy them for a start.

Don't make me start on that! XD If it would be for me, they'd be all watching Disney dressed like Cinderella until their teens! XDDD But I think that's because I love children as much as you do *minus the attraction* and I wish they'd remain like that forever. After that, there's the moody and awkward teenage years and, later, you can't skip school to play anymore ;___; *kicks job* *mumbles* stupid college, stupid money, stupid job, stupid dresscodes... *keeps mumbling*

I'm pretty sure that my aunt would be about the *last* person my sister would've gone to about sex matters when she was that age.

Excuse me, but I'm a really cool/pierced/tattoed/out-of-the-closet bi aunt XD My 16 yo cousin comes to me to talk about sex all the time *I have to admit I almost fainted when I saw her last bf, though XD I'm so glad they're not together anymore!* Knowing my sister, I can bet I'm gonna be the one talking about bees and flowers to my niece and I even started researching about how to talk about it when the questioning begins.

Anyway. Assuming I haven't stepped over the mark with any of that and you're still reading ...

Yep, still here *waves*

they're the most perfect thing God (or whatever higher power or biological process you want to blame) put here on the earth.

*agrees*

Your second question is simply way too broad. You put taking nude pics of children in the same breath practically as full-on molestation. I'm sure even you can see the massive difference between those two acts.

I see the difference. I just phrased it like that but they were four different questions. I'm sorry, I didn't want to imply taking pics of a child is the same as molestation.

- But just like that won't stop her getting a little wet over Johnny Depp every now and then, hey maybe when she "should" be thinking about me lol ...

- I'm sure she's never gonna jet off to Paris and stalk poor Johnny down on a Metro train

*fangirl rant* But but but! We're talking about Johnny Depp! The sexiest human ever! "a little wet" doesn't make justice to his smexiness! Tell her I'll keep her company if she ever decides to go to Paris to stalk him! XDDD */fangirl rant*

I'm never gonna go hiding behind tumbleweeds waiting for a vulnerable girl on her way home from school. At the end of the day even if I *wanted* to be that creepy cliché, I'm simply too busy.

I just imagined you dressed all Wall-Street-like thinking "Mmm, today looks like a good day to hide under some bushes..." *takes out cammo paint* *blackberry beeps* "Damn! I hate stock options, they always ruin my plans!" *puts cammo paint back and goes to the office again*

I know I'm silly but, sometimes, I amuse myself a lot XD

If you're scared for your niece, that's fine. Wrap her in skorts and bubblewrap and take her to school under armed guard. I don't know your situation or level of care in regards your sister or anything, but the fact is that even if you're her primary guardian now, she's not gonna be yours forever, and overprotecting her now could hurt her more in the future than the risk she'll run into a "bad" one of "us" now.

Hey, good idea! *goes to find armed guards* *stops* *re-reads* But I want her to be my butterfly princess forever and ever! ;___; Are you sure I can't keep her like that? Damn!

Now seriously about the end of your post *hey! I can be serious sometimes too! =D*, yes, there're A LOT of monsters out there, from peers to teachers to parents who ignore their children or don't even try to listen to them. Some of the most hurtful things ever said to me were said by my father. People need to learn how to respect each other, not just children but everybody, this world would work way better if we'd understand something as simple as that...

Once again, thank you for your answers! I had a lot of fun replying to you and I hope you didn't find my post boring and TL;DR! I found your reasonings really interesting *^^* I hope you understood everything, some sentences were really difficult to translate ^^U