Re: Questions

Once again, thank you for your answers! I had a lot of fun replying to you and I hope you didn't find my post boring and TL;DR! I found your reasonings really interesting *^^* I hope you understood everything, some sentences were really difficult to translate ^^U

As someone else has said, it's hard not to be a little paranoid when the last person you expect to understand you comes back and seems to understand so well, but, what can I say, you officially gave me that "warm fuzzy feeling" that makes such paranoid judgments impossible. I didn't even notice your comment in your original post about not being an English speaker. You actually write it better than most people who are, lol.

Don't make me start on that! XD If it would be for me, they'd be all watching Disney dressed like Cinderella until their teens! XDDD But I think that's because I love children as much as you do *minus the attraction* and I wish they'd remain like that forever. After that, there's the moody and awkward teenage years and, later, you can't skip school to play anymore ;___; *kicks job* *mumbles* stupid college, stupid money, stupid job, stupid dresscodes... *keeps mumbling*

Wishing they'd remain like that forever ... there's one thing we all seem to agree on :)

I have another response to this kind of sentiment, though, it's like just another component to my ever developing universal field theorem or something. People always seem grumpy about being grownup in the world of grownups and doing the grownup things they're "supposed to do". Again, I've got a response to this that once said, once you take the split second required to consider it, couldn't seem simpler.

That is: *why* do we feel that we can't be children again?

Of course I'm not talking in physical terms (but hey, there's definitely a completely childlike unrestrained portion of my imagination that remains *fascinated* by the possibilities of nanotechnology ... and yet another even more childlike that simply continues to wish up falling stars! lol) - but, just in terms of the mindset?

Just because we have all the miserable (albeit occasionally useful) knowledge we acquire as we muddle through the world in time, *why* do we feel we have to bear all that knowledge at all times? Why can't we feel free, from time to time, even *most* of the time if we so choose, to throw off the baggage of being so goddamn mature?

And this isn't just a thought that I'm not trying to put into action. I do it in tiny ways and I'm always looking for ways to expand my behaviours. I never do anything just because my so-called peers are doing it. In fact, I'll often specifically *not* do something if I feel that too many of my peers are doing it. Further to that, I regard my peers less and less each day as the people of my own age, sex, and situation, as the word is defined; but more and more as the little girls that fascinate me so much. I read their books, I watch their TV shows, I listen to their music. Heck, if they fit me I'd probably even consider wearing their clothes, lol. I've learned more from the world of little girls than anything in the world of work and money and gossip could teach me.

And on the clothes thing, incidentally - I think there's a place for the innocent Disney Princess outfits *and* the sometimes oversexed stuff. Like any fashion, it's all about how it's worn and who it's worn by. There's no set rule to this, you just know when you see it whether or not it's working for you. There is a point, certainly, where even the cutest little girl could wear a given item in such a way that would make me lose all interest in them. Mainly it's to do with if they are comfortable wearing it and if they understand how they *do* look compared to how they *could* look, never caring for a moment about how they "should" look. I don't particularly like the "sticky lollipop all down my front" look, lol. Not cute, just dirty. Though I'd be happy to clean up with them, hehe ;-) (hey I've gotta test the boundaries of this dialogue at some point ...) But that's just a personal ideal, lol, I like clean girls, I know that others are wild for how messy kids can get in the shortest span of time. It certainly makes me giggle but it doesn't turn me on lol (idea for the antis: cover your cuties from head to toe in mud!) But I digress, lol.

As with all the other points on this thread, the point is - all the boundaries we (well, not me - "the world at large") apply to little girls as regards what is or isn't appropriate can be applied just as stringently to grownup girls - there are a million more, for want of a kinder word, "slutty" girls doing harm to themselves and being harmed who nobody ever complains about just because they're of age. I've seen exactly such girls, ironically, point the finger at perfectly *adorably* dressed LGs even while their disgusting flabby asses are threatening to spill completely out of the dental floss they're wearing. Sometimes it's like Chris Morris himself is writing the script for reality.

Also, for the record, since you seemed to like the mention of him, lol, Johnny is *exactly* one of those other things that appeals to me. I can count the number of men who do this to me almost literally on the fingers of one hand, but it's like I said, the beauty I see in just about all little girls does definitely occur in other bodies too - just less often. In his Vanessa it's *abundant*, and unsurprisingly their kids are about the most beautiful tiny packages on the planet (okay maybe just Lily Rose, not Jack, blah, I got nothin' for Jack LOL)

People need to learn how to respect each other, not just children but everybody, this world would work way better if we'd understand something as simple as that...

That's pretty much how simple it is, but grownups in their wisdom will always muddy the waters with their violent notions of physical contact. I always put the basic rule as "just don't hurt people". Yes - there are children that still require guidance in making their own decisions and judging at what point someone is being hurt. But there are fully grown adults who need just as much assistance ... and those people, I'm just guessin', are as likely to be pedophiles as any random sample of the population. We need to stop drawing absolute lines where people can be expected to handle themselves. Or, if we *must* draw those lines, then they absolutely need to be moved. The average 6-year-old may not know anything at all about sex, sure, I could be convinced of that - but the average 16, 18, 21 year old? Please. They've been there, done that, and got the STDs to prove it - probably several times to compensate for the touch they were denied when they were 6. I liked what someone said here recently about making political posters - the one of the teenage couple having sex with the caption, "having sex was legal, taking the picture wasn't". As I said in the Miley thread ... the world is freakin' nonsense, I wish more people would step away from the herd long enough notice sometimes.

Sorry I ended on a downer there I guess. This thread is really encouraging, though, almost makes me want to come out to a few people so I can show it to them. There's more intelligent discussion on this board sometimes than there is anywhere else on the 'net. So thanks for bringing the best out of (most of) us.