Re: Kiota thought that?

you're a disrespectful liar no-knowing person hen-wen
and it was pigs like you that murdered kiota
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0ZkKzN2182I

Aug 20 2006, 02:37 PM

If I were a cl, these would be my guidelines:

1. The adult is not in a position of obvious authority over the child - for instance, not a guardian or teacher, not someone the child depends on for their welfare.

2. Nothing that could cause the child physical damage or pain is done (i.e., no intercourse that would be painful for the child).

3. The child initiates everything - and desire is not confused for curiousity. For instance, if a child asks to see the adult's genitals, that is curiousity - the adult will not then encourage the child to touch him/her.

4. The child's intentions must be clear. For instance, if a child wants to do something sexual with the adult, it must first be made clear WHY. There's the risk of a child who'd been previously sexually abused to want to do something sexual with an adult friend because that is what he/she has been taught to do to show love.

5. The adult is first and foremost the child's friend - anything sexual must only come as a natural result of a close loving friendship.

6. Every sexual action and its consequences must be explained fully to the child before taking place.

7. The relationship must not be a secret.

8. It should be clear to the child that if at any point he or she does not want to participate sexually, the adult will have no problem with this and the relationship will revert back to platonic, with no negative consequences.

What do you guys (and girls) think of these? What would your guidelines be?

~ Kiota

jan 28 2007, 12:12 Am

....

and... uuurgh, I don't know if I was looking at her because she was beautiful (which I do all the time with LGs), or whether she was more than beautiful and actually attractive... I was having all sorts of pleasant thoughts involving a very sweet, gentle sort of kiss... though I am unsure whether it was an erotic sort of kiss or a kiss that's loving in a... maternal or sisterly sort of way?

~ Kiota

AHHH I'M BECOMING A PEDO