Re: Happy!

I have no girls in my life either, old friend. Considering that I'm out as a hebephile, I can't afford to have any in my life as friends. And it does depress me that I can't have as many girls in my life as I want, as friends, colleagues, and romance partners. But I'm far from lonely (most of the time). I have the community here, other communities I am involved with, and some really good friends (both offline and online). I don't have as many friends as I would like to have in real life right now, and I do sit home lonely sometimes, but I communicate with some great people from all over the world through cyberspace. And I have some great hobbies and friends that I met through participating in those hobbies. One of my regrets is that so many of my friends live so far away from me. And of course one of my biggest regrets of them all will always be the fact that I can't legally befriend or date as many girls aged 12-17 as I wanted. Of course, I also regret not having a romantic partner of legal age, but considering how badly I was always used and treated in the past, I don't have as many regrets about that as some people, even though it does get lonely without anyone to hold and cuddle with sometimes. But you never know what the future may bring for you.

But as I have said elsewhere on this board, it's still possible to live a fulfilling life and find some measure of happiness even if you are a GLer without girls in your life (or a BLer without boys, or a "bothluver" without either).