But It's Not Hypothetical

SM,

Not the way you put it, anyway. I can't see that this is hypothetical - because it's quite possible that a lg would decide to initiate sexual activity, isn't it? And you were asking about today's society.

As far as I can see, answering '4' would not be allowable on here, which makes Eeyore's objection valid.

My own intention would be to tell her that we couldn't, and why, and I'd make sure she knew it was not because I didn't care for her, and that there was nothing 'bad' about her feelings. One of our enemies reading this would reply "Bollocks - you'd plan on option 4; but you just can't say that." They'd be wrong; but this is why it's such a frustratingly impossible discussion.