i agree....

your right, even from the start a couple years ago i have always had that problem. sounding like a "characacher of what the media often claims about MAA's" as you put it.

i guess my only answer is that maybe i am some of the things they claim. i can't think of any specific attributes right now but i have certainly sounded cliche' in the past but only really noticed it till someone pointed it out, heres the thing....that's just me being honest and myself. with that said i'm always trying to be a better gler and the last thing i want to do is fuel the fire for the anti's. i have always taken people's advice from here and tried to apply it in my posts. i am still fairly young and when i am criticized i feel as though it maybe due to my immaturity, but the older and wiser i get the better gler i will be. i mean really though diss, you have to give me credit, i've come a long way.

so maybe i'm not the most ideal gler. maybe i think and say things that most of you wouldn't. maybe i'm on the fringe and most of you have way better morals, or a way better grasp on what to say and how to say it.

but that doesn't make me a liar, it just makes me a little out of touch with what's appropriate in the girl love community. i mean if theres a handbook let me know because i will study it day and night. other than that i can only be myself and always be improving.